The five most essential words for a healthy, vital relationship: "I apologize" and "You are right".

Being miserable because of a bad or former relationship just proves that the other person was right about you.

If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

Living well is really the best revenge.

why do you assume karma is a she? honestly........

While its easy to point a finger, scream and yell at your significant other it does little to resolve the situation other than the obvious.. it makes you feel better for a bit. Honesty and tactfully communicating your issue is the best answer because if you don't the same thing will happen again and again and again!

If it can't be resolved, find a way to make the concessions you need to to tolerate it... or else get out of the relationship. You will just be unhappy.

The thing is, these people are adults and they'll never change. As much as men say they want to grow up eventually they never do. So you yelling at them or telling them something is unacceptable makes you look crazy bc in their mind they did the right thing. They'll never truly comprehend the effect that their actions has on people around them. Let it go, they'll figure it out when every intimate relationship around them follow the same path, by the time they realize that they are the problem, it'll be too late, they'll die lonely, miserable and regretful. Pfheww, I needed that!!