
Dark Girls: Preview
9 months ago
Clips from the upcoming documentary exploring the deep-seated biases and attitudes about skin color---particularly dark skinned women, outside of and within the Black American culture.
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Directed by Bill Duke and D. Channsin Berry
Produced by Bill Duke for Duke Media
and D. Channsin Berry for Urban Winter Entertainment
Co-Produced by Bradinn French
Line Produced by Cheryl L. Bedford
Edited by Bradinn French
Please support us by helping us raise money at officialdarkgirlsmovie.com/donate-to-the-film/
Also, "Like" us on Facebook and stay tuned for premiere dates coming in the fall.
Directed by Bill Duke and D. Channsin Berry
Produced by Bill Duke for Duke Media
and D. Channsin Berry for Urban Winter Entertainment
Co-Produced by Bradinn French
Line Produced by Cheryl L. Bedford
Edited by Bradinn French
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I'm a black woman and I never KNEW dark skin women went through this. Growing up in my household it was never discussed. My parents' family and friends were like the rainbow coalition. I don't ever remember anyone commenting on our different shades. I mean, I heard about it (out there somewhere) but, because it sounded so stupid I NEVER entertained it. Maybe it had everything to do with the fact that when I SEE dark skin women I see BEAUTY. Dark skin women are the only women I'll date and I have no problem saying that to ANYONE. (Though I would do Chaka Khan.) :)
Dark skin girls, I LOVE YOU!
This is not to say that black women who relax their hair are not beautiful but if you don’t have an emotional choice and feel that nappy hair is ugly then you have a problem. I stopped relaxing my hair when I was 14 and now I am 57 and will die with nappy hair. My grown daughter wears her hair nappy and I did not want her to see me wearing my hair relaxed when she was a child. I am also paper bag brown so I grew up in a somewhat safe space ( not too dark/insane) lets heal this and it starts on the inside first:
I want to see the whole documentary: When ????????????
It's true: If you don't KNOW your history you don't know where you're going.
Racism in the black community IS something we have to deal with and work to repair. But, it's not as simple as "we have to stop this".
I only implore us to be gentle to ourselves. WE DESERVE IT. If history has taught us nothing, I ALWAYS HOPE & PRAY that it has taught us this: If we don't LOVE ourselves who will? Be gentle.
a Dark skinned girl
Why did you delete my earlier comment. This is where the opinions of a Doctor of Philosophy matters, we need you here!!
It pains me heavily as someone who's very prideful in being myself and in being black to hear comments like that and this whole thing about dark skin being unacceptable is highly problematic and a danger to our race as people. There's so much brainwashing and self hate to the point that anything deemed naturally black is deemed as ugly or even our roots being seen as sinful.
When is this coming out and where can we see it??
Do you feel like the negative reactions you received play a part in how confident you are now in showing your body, or did you always feel positive about your body image?
I hate what the winter does to my complexion. I'll keep praying for all the dark skin girls that arnt aware yet. All the complexions are beautiful,... all of them.
Here is a link to a discussion about the blog posting on Huffington Post's Facebook page:
facebook.com/topic.php?uid=18468761129&topic=18857
We all have stories about this form of self-hatred, not just within the Black Community but in every ethnic group on this planet. There is a theme song: "I am not good enough, here is why, and I have proof." Within the Black community, although it is generally accepted and understood that it started with slavery, others believe it is institutionalized racism and the white supremacy mindset that has been left unchecked and intact since the enslaved were freed that feeds into an inherited sense of not being enough.
I do hope to see interwoven in the documentary a rhythm that can be felt from deep within (for that is where the change has to take place) that we are like the stars in the sky, numerous, each uniquely and radiant and that shines within us is the Love the created us all.
As the saying goes, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," wanting to be seen as aesthetically beautiful can be a trap and a way to validate and reinforce a sense of unworthiness that is the root cause of pain and suffering that begins when the consciousness of self begins to unfold.
Beauty is an attribute of Love to be experienced in the moment. Although a physical attribute can be perceived, judged, preferred, etc., it can only be seen from within the lens of self. Simply stated, you see and react to what you believe and most of the beliefs are hidden. In watching this preview, the universe presented to me yet another opportunity to look at and experience those unquestioned/unexamined beliefs.
When its all looked at, I keep coming back to the same place: I am God's* Beloved Child with Whom it is Well Pleased.
*Universe, Diving Love, etc.
it's amazing how superficial human beings are though we're supposed to be the intelligent species. color of one bodily organ? not realizing that melanin is beneficial both aesthetically and practically? ignoring that who a person is has nothing to do with color of skin? we may as well be orangutans with such low order thinking.
it's also interesting how the cycle works: society decides that dark is ugly rather than lovely, so over time even dark people internalize it. their internalization decreases their self-esteem (even though we all know their worth isn't limited to skin). low self esteem drops their head and makes them shrink back. that lack of confidence in turn validates the false notions of their worth. and the cycle continues.
come quickly, LORD!
btw ... the dad and mom of the little girl who said "'cause she black" etc. should be ashamed not just for failing to teach their child about verbs but for failing to combat the terrible notions about color she obviously adopted :(
also ,,, i've heard that "i'm not black i'm caribbean" and "i'm not black i'm spanish" stuff. it's bizarre considering that 95% of slaves were taken to parts of the hemisphere other than north america! if anything, it's they who are the MOST black and the americans who are watered down.
by God's grace, my family cast off these notions GENERATIONS ago.
i just want to shake the crazies who continue to insist on passing this madness on to their kids.
who the heck ARE they???
smh.
Growing up, I always had a positive image of myself. My father always told me how pretty mt brown skin was. He knew that the world might try to make me think differently. His wisdom and love allowed me to see that we brown/black girls are indeed pretty and just as good. Im in the middle of releasing my very first children's book. How ironic that I would come across this preview. Check us out at : browngirlsareprettytoo.com !
Watching this video took me back to a place that I've been reflecting on the past few weeks.
As a teenager I was a tall, lanky *no curves to save my life. Think Popeye's Olive Oil. :)* dark-skinned girl who always had her head buried in a book. I was not exactly the standard of beauty for teenage boys. What was the most hurtful was being rejected by black boys. There was nothing special about me in their eyes. I wasn't fair, did not have light eyes and my hair wasn't especially long. I was just black. Nothing "exotic" to speak of. Even more horrifying, I was unfortunate enough to be a "homely" dark girl without the proverbial "ghetto booty." If you're homely and black, the least you can do is have "junk in your trunk."
Those awkward teenage years were exacerbated by:
a) the lack of beauty role models with my skin tone, body type and hair texture;
and
b) the bully who made it his business to torture me.
My bully was an overweight and tar-baby-dark guy who girls completely ignored. As author Richard Sennet points out in Respect in a world of inequality, “The condition of "not being seen" had produced a desire to avenge." Truer words were never spoken as it related to this situation. To make matters worse, this bully saw in me his most hated feature. Every day he was forced to confront the thing about himself that caused him the most grief (his skin color).
As a teen, I did not have the knowledge of self to know that his issues with me ran deeper than he cared to realize. I was only the face of his problems and therefore an easy target to confront. His real issues stemmed from generations of black self-hate that was encouraged during times of slavery when the darker slaves were relegated to picking cotton and working in the fields while the lighter ones (those who more closely resembled their European masters - usually as a result of interracial rape) were able to remain as house slaves and have the opportunity to be educated.
Since I did not have that wisdom, my years were spent trying to get me to a standard of beauty that would be valued. Day in and day out I prayed and begged God to give me the type of butt that black boys would appreciate. While I had the butt aspect covered with God, I used Ambi (and some of you probably know it well) religiously and with the urgency of a death row inmate eating his last meal. As for the hair, I had that covered with a combination of hot combs, relaxers, and braids. Whatever style would make me seem more attractive.
It wasn't until years later (hello Black Studies classes in college!) that I had the strength to confront my color demons and work through the self-hate. While I was fortunate enough to have that opportunity, I've often wondered whether my bully had the same chance. I hope it's true, but who knows. You can't combat issues that you never actually acknowledge. As the say in AA (or so TV tells me), the first step is admitting you have a problem.
Of the issues that I am dealing with today, I'm happy to report that my outside beauty is no longer one of them - mostly. While I do have those rare moments when my thoughts are transferred back to those teenage years, it never lasts for long. For those moments, I surround myself with uplifting scriptures, poems and songs.
For those sisters in the documentary, I send prayers and good thoughts that they can internalize the lesson of 1 Samuel 16:7 The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
Thanks,
M
everythingiric.com
lulu.com/content/paperback-book/celebrate-her-now/241548
I am interested in having tis film at my film festival this year. We are the Roxbury International Film Festival and we are locate in Boston MA. Our festival is July 28-31st. Please contact me at tbrownrff@gmail.com
Thanks,
Terri Brown
RIFF Progeam Manager
roxburyfilmfestival.org
officialbillduke.com/
wait, IT IS!!!! sooooooo awesome!!!!
but this is brilliant either way. kudos.
LOL
To those who commented that the women in this documentary need to get self esteem, thank you for giving a real time example of the pain of this issue. Your lack of compassion illustrates a core issue in the black community. These women are sharing their most painful experience with the world and I commend them for their honesty and courage.
For those who spoke about the challenges of being light skinned and teased by dark skinned girls, I say to you...we all have been teased for being different. I offer that those dark skinned girls who tormented you were also facing challenges. Being perceived as ugly, having bad hair, dirty skin, not getting dates... I'm sure they took their pain out on you and that is unfortunate for us all because it tears us all apart. But, the subject of this particular documentary is not about the pain of being a light skinned woman in this country. This documentary is the untold story of the Dark skinned women in this country.
To hear that Black Man say he doesn't want a dark skinned woman on his arm, and to hear one of the women say that she only was pursued by black men in secret was so sad.
Human beings all want to be validated and respected. That's all. When we are able to see the beauty in everyone, to forgive and to love ourselves unconditionally we can heal everything.
I'm a dark girl and I was told I was ugly by some ignorant black people. Some were dark skinned and some were light. But, my Mother, my Aunties, my father and sister told me I was beautiful, intelligent, with a big heart and could accomplish anything I set my mind to, and I believed my family.
The most heartbreaking part of this clip was the little girl who associated being dark with everything negative. It's important to show that black is beautiful in all shades. Why do people yearn to get tan? Interesting. Telling these stories is so important because it exposes the fear and ignorance and causes it to just evaporate. Seeing the young girl talk about natural hair being "dirty" just made feel sorry for her ignorance.
It's the 21st century, time to heal the wounds of slavery within the black community, unite and embrace one another in sister and brotherhood. Work thru our differences, only then can we expect to be able to work on our differences with the rest of the world and achieve inner and outer peace.
Lighter women are definitely not saying the story should be about their personal plight! The darker woman's story needs to be told.
The point is that light women have challenges, too, in our community and that some people assume that is not the case.
And, I would hardly say the treatment should be called "teased." There is strong hate received by light women from some dark women for just being born light. Many dark women share sisterhood, love, acceptance as young women growing up while fair women are not accepted because of the way they look. In fact, some light women hang together NOT because they "think day cute" but because they are the only women that will truly, objectively accept each other as they are.
Please know that I love you sister. I just wish we could get beyond color and accept ALL SHADES of women as they are.
Being tormented and repressed is difficult for everyone.
To me being "teased" is a serious situation. Words can be weapons and it's important to think before we speak.
When an individuals are able to recognize the effect of collective ignorance and work to find solutions beyond hate and anger, only then will we able to heal the pain.
I live in NYC and I am grateful to have friends of all colors. My circle of girlfriends include light and dark skinned women of all nationalities, American, African-American, African, European, Asian, Indian, Middle Eastern, Native American.
When I showed my friends of other nationalities this documentary clip, they did not personalize the subject matter and tell me how Americans of African descent teased them for being white or European etc, nor did they bring attention to the racism or issues they face because of their ethnicity, size or skin color.
They reacted with compassion and wanted to find out why that little girl in the video thought that the drawing of the dark skinned girl in the cartoon was dumb, ugly, and unwanted.
My African, Middle Eastern and Indian friends shared with me that globally, darker skinned people faced all kinds of challenges that connected to class and the ability to find work get an education and so much more. This started a conversation between us where everyone shared their own challenges not as victims or to blame others or to validate their pain, but to find understanding and human kindness and peace.
I look forward to the time when African Americans are able to debate and solve matters of internal racism with genuine compassion for one another in a true community of harmony and peace.
Good luck to you.
I love my complexion today. I'm medium brown, with longer relaxed hair...I kind of feel like I straddle two worlds...the dark-skinned girl and the "wanna-be type". I can't wait for this film to be released. I have a teenaged brown-skinned daughter, whom I've never broached this subject with. We live in California, in an area where we are minority. I'm interested to know what her experience has been and how she views herself. I think she is beautiful.
Briefly, the problem is bigger than skin color. Black people as a whole need to develop love for black culture... history, language, mannerism, etc.... and find strength and freedom in that LOVE. From there, love for skin color and other difference will follow.
Thank you.
I think it is pretty obvious that our society values white over black and that goes way beyond "preference." And, as William said, what is "preference," really? We all learn what beauty is and we are definitely influenced by concepts of beauty through the media and based on who has real power and influence in this country....
Isn't this skin issue same across genders? Why is made such a big gender issue by the feminists?
Good work Chan!
Slavery created a continuing Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder among the Black community and the symptoms of mental illness that it spawn are rarely, if ever, addressed on a wider community level.
The sickness in the hearts and minds of far too many African Americans of whose skin color runs the gamut (as very light skinned Blacks also get a social drubbing) will be hard to heal, when it's not publicly acknowledged as mental illness from PTSD that needs to be treated.