After the loss of her only child, Fan Xi wanted to learn more about other parents in the same situation, but she found that there were few books and other materials on the topic. So she decided to write her story.

Every dream about her daughter and every detail of her daughter's life served as material for her book. Over countless days and nights, Fan nearly dried out her eyes from crying while writing. On Mothers' Day 2006, she published Once You Were Here.

The book was not only a way for a mother to deal with losing her daughter, but also an effort to offer guidance to people in the same situation. It also enabled other readers to understand the struggles of parents like Fan.

Director / Sun Peng
Producer / Flora Yue

孩子去世后,范玺希望了解失独者的现状,却发现市面上关于失独问题的书籍和文献非常稀少,她决定把自己的经历变成文字。

每一个思念孩子的梦境,女儿曾经的生活细节,都成为了范玺写书的素材。经历无数个日夜,写作中范玺几乎流干了眼泪,2006年的母亲节,新书《你曾来过》终于面世。

这本关于一个已故女孩儿的书,是范玺本人寄托思念和排解压抑的方式,也为全社会认识失独者提供了样本,让更多的失独者获得理解和宽慰。

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