Janet

I have reconciled with my ex husband it will be 5 years in March 2010. We have a 16 yr old son who is happier than I have ever seen him and my man, Thanks be to God took me back after I messed around on the internet. Well things got bad for a long while to where I even lost faith and hope in anything or anyone. I felt the pain and still do today. We do not intend to remarry but we are in this relationship as if it were brand new and nothing ever happened. In fact I left the guy I met on the net because he was abusing me mentally, emotionally and physically. I am glad God brought me back to my sences because my man is where I am most comfortable at now. We purchaced a home in NC on 2 acres of land since we reconciled. I am so happy with who we have become with eachother and how I have gotten strength back from God from all the pain I went thru and not to mention the pain I made for my loved ones. More people were effected by this than I ever thaught. When we got back together it was a matter of me swallowing alot of pride, and so I did.
It is still uncomfortable around his family but It is getting better.My family are so happy we got back together even tho there was a divorce.We are still taking this day by day and I do not know if there will be a remarriage or not but things are as if we were still married and locals around here believe we are maried. So why bother with a remarriage? I just want a divorce from my divorce. So does he.