Today's blog is on FEAR. Although I consider myself a relatively courageous person, from time to time fear steps in to remind me that I too am human, and vulnerable to that ever so powerful emotion of False Evidence Appearing Real. That happened this weekend while my family and I visited a new local water park... Hawaiian Falls in Pflugerville. In today's video blog I tell my story of the fear that gripped me, and how I managed to overcome that fear... at least long enough to do what I needed to do.
In our business and in our life we are going to come up against fear. Maybe you are terrified of cold calling, or maybe you are afraid of meeting and talking with people you don't know. Fear can crop up many places. But you can handle fear if you have a way to tame the thoughts in your mind, and calm the uproar in your body. If you have something to focus on that is bigger than you.
I call that something A Stand. A Stand is what you stand for in this life. It's much bigger than a goal or an objective. It's who you want to be for the world. My Stand is to make a difference for people. And, when I am faced with a giant fear, that's what I draw on to move forward. I look around and see how what I am about to do is going to be a benefit to someone else, and I focus on that benefit, instead of what I am afraid of. Sometimes that fear can be like a wave that still comes rushing back in, but if you can calm your fears, even for a moment, that small moment can be enough to help you show up in the world as who you want to be. And that is the way that you get to be who you were meant to be, and how you get to help others along the way.