We southerners love football. My family and I find irresistible a beautiful fall afternoon of friends, family, food and cheering on our team to victory. In football, like life, emotions run high and the athletes rely on ability and coaching and they must react, not think. There is drama in football and momentum can swing on a single play. Divorce is like football but to be successful, the “players” must think, not react. When you react through a divorce you make mistakes. One stupid mistake can drastically change your life. The decision to follow her home, drive after a couple of drinks, grab her by the arm so she will “just stop and listen”, send a message on Facebook to that old high school sweetheart… Do I need to continue? You have to move through the process of divorce with precision and think about what you are doing before you act. The purpose of this video is to help you to THINK not react.