"Gender does not dictate your personality," Sinclair Sexsmith says in this condensed version of her Fucking with Gender workshop at The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health's 2nd annual conference. Sinclair, who writes the award-winning gender and sexuality blog SugarButch.net, is a "kinky, queer, butch top" who used writing as a way to explore her own gender and, eventually, wrote herself into the sex life she wished she had. "Gender labels," she says, "are a starting point, not an ending point," and keeping this in mind Sinclair offers some advice about how you can go after—and ultimately get—what you want in the bedroom, and also out of it.
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