NOTE: It seems that this setup might have problems in 2.49b. If you feel like your setup does not work like it should, try it with a Blender version of 2.46 or 2.47, thanks.
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This setup has emitter particles in plane object and reactor particles in Suzanne object. Suzanne gets destroyed by plane object's particles by using the reactor particles with explode modifier.
HD version is available.