Fr. Ray describes the experience of the weeds among the wheat as a parable that emphasizes the patience and compassion of God. He waits for our willingness to be transformed by Him into a bountiful harvest of goodness, He shares stories of altar servers tossed out of the church after a confrontation resulting in injuries, who later became ,,, Well, you'll have to listen to this to find out the surprising end.
Fr. Ray goes on to describe three elements to work towards in order to turn our own "weeds" into wheat.
1) Maintain patience with ourselves and others.
2) Leave judgment up to God and instead pray for one another.
3) We strive toward our transformation to "wheat" whether we feel happy or not - we ask God to helps us transform the negative aspects in positive traits.