You can help young men respect women and have good relationships just by encouraging them to think about everything they’re seeing. Are they getting a load of media - including porn - that makes disrespect or violence towards women seem normal? Ask them what they think about it all.
Give porn a reality check
Be clear with them – porn isn’t real. It doesn’t show any real relationships, and the sex is often degrading, violent or disrespectful to women. Talk about what respectful sexual behaviour looks like – and how you won’t see it in most porn.
Get them thinking about what sort of guys they want to be and how choosing to watch things that goes against that will make it harder.
There’s lots more advice to help you do this in the Raising Boys Who Respect Toolbox.