We had been together for six years when we decided to start a family. We were pregnant with Oscar when we decided to get married. I was around 18 weeks pregnant when we tied the knot at a friend's farm in Wollombi on the edge of the Hunter Valley. The last ten years have been a journey as much about us becoming the parents to four glorious boys as it has been about us being dedicated to each other and in love. Ten years. And yet it is so much more than that.