Three offbeat bride questions get answered this time: Can I have multiple wedding showers in different cities? Do I have to have his bratty niece in the ceremony? And if I'm keeping my last name, how should we be presented after the ceremony?
(For the uninitiated, I wrote a book called "Offbeat Bride: Taffeta-Free Alternatives for Independent Brides." You can read more about it at offbeatbride.com.)