People form groups, friendships, families etc. based on common values. I often have different values with other people but I can sometimes understand their point of view. I can't be friends with people whose values are different from mine but I can communicate with them. However, there are some values I cannot understand at all.
If I had a choice between buying an expensive car and turning on the heating 24/7 then I would always do the latter. Being warm comes a trillion lightyears before a flashy car. But I have met people who think the opposite. I don't understand them at all. Maybe they are right and I am wrong?
I own nothing. My actions are 'fair use'.