People live in Meville without knowing it, everything is about me. When they pray it's about me, and if me doesn't have a need they don't have anything to pray about. In I Corinthians 13:11 Paul is speaking about the time when he lived in Meville. For a child everything is about me, but when they grow up they are suppose to leave Meville. However some have stayed longer in Meville than they were suppose to, and now they are an adult and they are miserable because people are just not treating me the way they are suppose to.