James Rankine throws down the gauntlet to both men and women on how to be godly men and women in a relationship. Relationships don't work like fairytales where; if enough obstacles are removed everything will end happily ever after. Men – God’s standards are high. He wants us to treat woman brilliantly. To honour and respect them. To treat them as children of God. Women – never lead a man on for your own gratification and self worth. Do not toy with men. Look for a man who would give himself up for you. Who would put you above himself.