The defining question of "Competence" is, "What Do I Do Well?" When a child asks that question, ideally we would hope there would be many answers. Answers based on character, athletic, artistic, academic achievements, and other interests. Notice however the question is "What Do I do Well?" The question is not "What Do I Do Perfectly?" In today's video Kathy encourages us to celebrate our kids' honest attempts at achievement and excellence.