My wife is accusing me of having an affair with a woman at work and is threatening to divorce me. It's not true. Before I met my wife, I did date this woman for about a year. I never told her but somehow she found out. I don't think I should have to tell my wife everything I've done or am doing in my life. It had no bearing on my dating and marrying her, but she's accusing me of keeping secrets and is demanding I give her a rundown of my past. What's the big deal? It's not a secret. It's just somehting I chose not to share because it's irrelevant. I love my wife. I don't have affairs and never would.

What's healthy for couples when it comes to their past? Is there anything wrong with keeping secrets from your partner? I'm not hurting her or me or anyone and I've never asked her to give me details of her part relationships. Any thoughts?

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