1. Video 2: Responding & Seeking Emotional Safety
    (Video 1: vimeo.com/36867113)

    Full outline can be grabbed here: http://laurennicolelove.com/porn/mybfiswatchingporn-video2-outline.pdf

    In this video, Lauren talks about:
    #1 - Validating your hurt, grief, betrayal
    #2 - Different types of natural responses - unhealthy vs healthy
    #3 - Evaluating your personal emotional health
    #4 - Identifying the lies you believe (IE. "this is my fault")
    #5 - Co-dependency tendencies & healthy detachment
    #6 - Finding community & a confidant
    #7 - Coming to terms that you cannot change or save him
    #8 - Evaluating the relationship as a whole

    RECOMMENDED READING FOR THIS SEGMENT: Chapters 1, 2, & 3 for Living With Your Husband's Secret Wars
    ADDT'L OPT READING: Sex & The Soul Of A Woman by Paula Rhinehart

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  2. First video of a series addressing the issue, "I just found out my boyfriend is addicted to porn. What do I do?"

    Originally posted on http://laurennicolelove.com/blog, used on asklauren.tumblr.com and for goodwomenproject.com

    Contact lauren: laurennicolelove[at]gmail.com

    BOOKS REFERENCED:
    Boundaries - Cloud & Townsend
    Pure Eyes - Gross & Luff
    Living With Your Husband's Secret Wars - Marsha Means

    Purchase them at: bestbookbuys.com

    Future Videos:

    #2 - Emotional Safety & Security
    #3 - Becoming Educated About Porn
    #4 - Setting Boundaries
    #5 - Confronting & Communicating
    #6 - Leaving or Staying
    #7 - Stories & Resources

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My Boyfriend Is Watching Porn?!

Lauren Dubinsky

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