Remember that game? Crouched in a corner? Trying to breathe without making noise? One person hides and another person seeks. That's how it works. The truth is, it's not all that different from our lives now. We may do it in different ways, but we are all trying to hide from things we don't like. Things like pain, embarrassment and fear. We hide from things that hurt us. On the flip side, we're all seeking certain things too. We spend a lot of time and energy seeking acceptance, excitement, fun, and whatever it is that makes us feel good. The hard part is, either way we're not always successful. What happens when our best efforts fail? When, no matter how hard we try, pain still gets in and happiness still gets away? Sometimes, part of growing up is deciding to stop playing the game.